Leaving the military: identity after service
Leaving military service can change work, routines, relationships and identity. Explore educational guidance alongside practical resettlement and specialist support.
What may change
Uniform, unit, rank and a shared mission may be important to someone’s sense of self. Leaving service can change some of these alongside work, housing and family circumstances. AURIS offers reflection and educational material; it does not claim to replace resettlement services or establish which support any individual needs.
Practical transition and identity can overlap
Leaving military service can involve housing, income, work, family arrangements and changes in everyday relationships. People arrive with different circumstances; identity questions should not replace practical help or be assumed to explain every difficulty.
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Gemma Gardner
Founder and Research Lead, AURIS Institute
Gemma Gardner leads the AURIS research programme on identity and occupational transition. Her work builds the evidence base behind the AURIS Identity System and the Identity System, drawing on interviews with service leavers, families and the organisations that support them.
- Lead author, Identity Performance Psychology white paper series
- Principal investigator, AURIS identity adaptation interview programme
- Author of AURIS submissions on identity in occupational transition
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